In other words, if you’re a Western man, you will be in a pretty good spot. In terms of what I like to do on dates, that really depends where I meet the girl.If I’m in Bangkok, and I meet a fairly Westernized girl either on the street or on one of those dating sites, then a solid spot for a first date would be something like a cool local bar to get a couple of drinks. Another solid option is to just meet up for coffee at some random coffee shop in order to properly feel her out.If by the 3rd date, the woman isn’t willing to get “intimate” with you, there’s a good chance she’s just using you for attention and wasting your time.
Heck, you’ll be able to swipe them on Tinder as you would in New York. Having said that, unlike in some of the other countries where being a Westerner isn’t necessarily an advantage over local guys (e.g., Latin America and Eastern Europe), being a Westerner is truly prized in Asia and Thailand.
The women who are also open to dating non-Thai women do so because they perceive their own culture to be a bit too restrictive in terms of what women are allowed to do or not to do.
So, they are in a way rebelling against the status quo.
I’ve had women with whom I’ve slept on the very first date that went on to become super amazing relationships, it can be a sign that the woman you’re with is easy and not especially applicable to a relationship.5) She asks for money. Many Asian women think that Western guys are super loaded, so some women have no problems asking the guys they’re getting to know or seeing for some “financial help.” They make up all kinds of reasons for this help: perhaps it’s to help some ”family member” who lives on some farm, or maybe one of her relatives is “sick” and needs financial assistance.
This is a big red flag because no good or quality girl would ever ask her Western boyfriend for money. Even if she’s a very poor girl from the village, if she’s a half-way decent girl, she would never ask you for money.